Monday 16 April 2012

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For my Noble sisters in Islam...
10 Tips on How to be a Successful Wife:
1. Make Du'a to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful:
All good things are from Allah. Never forget toask Allah ta’ala for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on - by the M...ercy of Allah ta’ala - into Jannah.
2. Listen and Obey:
Obeying your husband is Fard. Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him that right and respect.
3. Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah:
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - taught us that any women who dies in a statewhere her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So..please him.
4. An argument is a fire in the house:
Extinguish it with a simple ‘I’m sorry’ even if itis not your fault.
When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, “Look, I’m sorry. Let’s be friends.”
5. Thank your husband constantly for the nicethings he does:
Then thank him again. This is one of the mostimportant techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hellfire.
6. Joke and play games with your husband:
A man's secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humor. As Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - told Jabir to marry someone who would make himlaugh and he would make her laugh.
7. Always wear jewellery and dress up in the house:
From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur’an. As a wife, continue to use the jewellery that you have and the pretty dressesfor your husband.
8. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them:
The Qur’an & Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics . Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to ‘enlarge’ them, and sing to your husband.
9. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting:
Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean andsweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him.
10. Use your ‘beauty’ to win the heart of your husband:
All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah - Azzawa Jal - has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband.
May we all be blessed with noble spouses Ameen... Don't forget Liking and sharing Islamin Practice page with your friends..Spread it for the sake of Allah swt..♥

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