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Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Shall I inform you which woman will enter Paradise?” The Sahaba replied: “Yes, most certainly.”*! Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said, “The woman who has children, islovable, when she becomes angry the husband consoles her, and when the husband becomes angry she says that as longas you do not become pleased with me, I will not even apply surmah (antimony) to my eyes.” [Tibrani]
The love between husband and wife offends Shaytaan more than anything else. If husbands and wives are to care for each other and try to keep the environment of the house as peaceful and loving as possible, every Muslim house can become a model of Jannat. All kinds of quarrels will cease and the misfortune of divorce will not prevail. Childrenbrought up in such environments will be an example of piety, discipline, love and sympathy. May Allah make every Muslim housea model of Jannat.
If the hearts of both spouses are united, therecan be no greater bounty, and if there are differences between them (Allah forbid), therecan be no greater calamity.

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