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Positive Hijab
I looked at my profile and saw hijab-loving as part of my self-descriptio n. It made me wonder why I put this first. Perhaps because it has become so central to who I am and because of all of the benefits I have received from it.
Mainly this has been the amount of time I save in the morning from not having to fix myhair. I have suffered bad hair days from age 11 to about 19 when I started wearing hijab, so the world and me have been saved from any more of these. Unfortunately my family still have to witness these (especially first thing in the morning).
Most important has been the peace that comes with knowing you are obeying Allah (SWT) and in a small way living the way that you are supposed to. When you go against Allah (SWT) commandment, you go against (nature or innate disposition towards virtue) and the unease penetrates every part of your life.
I love the fact that I am a visible part of this Ummah and the local Muslim community, whether that means
As a Muhajibah I am also a da’ee. When my every action is interpreted not as Umm Salihah’s action, but that of a Muslimah, you have the opportunity to represent your community and faith in the best light possible.When you hold a door, smile, give up your seat, it is a Muslim woman doing those things.I have heard a French convert say that the thing that attracted her to Islam was the absolute gentleness she saw in Muslim women. There are times when you don’t feel like being on your best behaviour – when youwant to lose your temper at the shop assistant, the bus driver or a colleague, or youare very close to using bad language or one-upmanship. Whenever I feel like this, I remind myself I am wearing my hijab and if I behave badly, the next Muslimah to come along will automatically be seen in the same light – rude, grumpy or mean. If on the other hand I rise above it and be gracious or respond with kindness, people will assume that Muslim women really are as elegant as their dress. I do think that sometimes people also start to want to be like you.
It’s also FUN! I used to love dressing well and receiving compliments and when I started to dress more modestly I felt very frumpy. It tookme till the birth of my third child and a little help from We Love Hijab to get my groove back and once again I am in the office best-dress list. If nothing else, the abaya and shayla cut a very dramatic and elegant figure. I recall one Englishman’s letter to a newspaper saying that in comparison to all ofthe bare bellies and pants poking out of the top of jeans seen now, he found the dress of Muslim women very elegant and graceful.
It helps me to be taken seriously. I am not very big or loud and I have worked in offices where some of the men don’t take pretty women too seriously. Because of my hijab people assume I am a serious person (I so amnot) and that I mean business. Some people even find it a little intimidating if I choose not to smile or talk too much (for a change)
After 9/11, working in the city was kind of scary. People would be terrified of you and you would be terrified of people. Seeing a sister in hijab was like finding an ally. A smile to each other was enough to reassure you that you were not alone in this situation or this city.
There have been times when wearing abaya has felt difficult (like tripping up stairs or when a pretty colleague turns up dressed to kill) but I have never regretted the decision to start covering my hair.

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