Tuesday 10 July 2012

Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wa Alihi
Wa Sallam) said: “The father is the middle gate
of Paradise”
(reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 1900; Saheeh al-
Jaami’, 7145)
(( love you dad . and missing you alot :`( :`( ))
Keep praying, bowing, prostrating to Allaah
for peace, sabr & strength because:
♥ As long as you are performing prayer, you
are knocking at the door of Allah,
and whoever is knocking at the door of Allah,
Allah will open it for him. ♥
(Imam Ibn al Qayyim Rahimahullah)
DIVINE FAITH
Deep in the sea are riches beyond compare…
But if you seek safety…it is on the shore! A
ship in the harbour is safe…but that’s not
what ships are built for! Most religious people
have embraced the Divine Faith harbouring
false hopes! Shariah means being on the right
track. Even on the right track…you’ll get run
over…if you just sit there!!!
They fail to understand that an empty
valueless ‘touch n go card’ would not trigger
the gates to be opened…while a minimum
top-up would only entitle them to travel a very
short distant! They have to be perfectly sure
that their topping-up will definitely get them
thro’…with HIS Grace and Mercy!
Why continue to live with false hopes and
empty dreams when you can make living a
better reality! Don’t leave impressions like an
oar upon the water! Islam never meant you to
be such…You cannot discover oceans unless…
you have the courage to leave the shore…!!!
If an egg is broken by outside force…life
ends…if it breaks from within…LIFE Begins…
GREAT things always begin from within…it will
take time, dedication, will-power, sacrifice
and action…to reach your goal…GO FOR ALLAH
(SWT)…you will get HIM…In sha Allah…
AMEEN!!!
The Wedding Ceremony (Nikaah)
Components
1 – Consent: ‘Aishah(R) asked Prophet
Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi was sallam) if
women must be asked for their permission of
marriage. Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi was sallam) replied, "Yes. " She said,
‘The virgin is asked for her permission but
she gets shy. Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi was sallam) said, "Her silence is her
permission. " (Bukhari and Muslim)
2 – The Wallee (Woman’s Guardian): Prophet
Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi was sallam) said,
"There is no nikaah except with a wallee.
" ( Ahmad , Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi)
3 – Two Witnesses: Prophet Muhammad
(sallallahu alayhi was sallam) said, "There is no
marriage except with a wallee and
trustworthy witnesses. " (Sahih- Bayhaqee)
Also, "There is no marriage except with a
wallee and two witnesses. " (Sahih Al-Jaami’)
4 – The Mahr (Dowry): Allah says (what
means): "And give to the women their dowry
with a good heart, but if they out of their
own good pleasure remit any part of it to you,
take it and enjoy it without fear of any harm.
" (Al-Nisa4:4) The mahr can be of any amount,
Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi was
sallam) said, "Look for one even if it was an
iron ring. " (Bukhari and Muslim)
The woman is not obliged to give the man
anything at the time of the wedding, as is
done in some cultures.
Acts to be Avoided
We should be careful to not act as the
disbelievers do regarding their mixing of men
and women, wearing tuxedos and white
wedding gowns, exchanging rings, kissing in
public, etc. Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi was sallam) said, "Whoever resembles a
people is one of them. " (Abu Dawood) —